Why are we here, what is the reason? A question that has plagued mankind since the beginning. Some say we only have one shot at life and others insist there is more than just one chance. To live life with a constant goal to better yourself, spiritually and intelligently to achieve happiness. It is hard to say what happens to you after you die, there is no eye witness, no proof of what the next step really is, if any. But, anyone can look into the night sky on a clear night must wonder, is there anything else going on out there? and if so does it effect me? The way I see it the world is divided into two types of people, either you believe in something more than just a one time ride, or you don't.

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When You Die

When you die what happens? Everything in the universe is an energy of sorts, your life force is an energy what holds you to this world and in your body. As you live your life your energy changes, you make choices that sculpt your energy in everyday actions connected to your feelings, good or bad. When you die your energy is released causing your being (soul) to enter the universe and into your next life with a flash of light (absence of time). You enter into your new body after birth sometime between 6 months old and 1 year in a slow process to consciousness. The reason for a slow transfer is because of the absence of time, being carried upside down for nine months and the birth process creates sever motion sickness, the added time after birth helps relieve it. You carry through some likes, dislikes, maturity level, personality traits and talents. This is why there are kids and mentally handy capped people that can't possibly learn what they know, but do. The talent was so strong last time it bled through into the current life. Anyone can experience the absence of time by being put to sleep for an operation or other reason a medical doctor to chemically put you under. As you pass out and regain consciousness it seems like no time has passed no matter how long the unconsciousness has lasted. As you feel out of the the fabric of time and then caught back up again when you regain consciousness you feel a little motion sickness from it. This is not the same as sleep, in sleep you can still feel time passing when consciousness you can not. Sometimes people have near death experiences and see them selves hovering above their body, they are loosing their life energy and the universe is trying to pull them into their next life. They are returned to their body once their life energy is restored.

The Power of Parents

Most parents do not realize the power they have over their kids, the world tells our kids they are no good and constantly try to bring them down from the bully on the play yard to the teacher with a chip on their shoulder. It is only until the child feels that their parents think or say they are no good that they really believe it. It is the love of the parents that holds a child up in this world so they can try to achieve their goals. The attitude of the parent must always stay positive and for the most part never punish or scold a child, instead talk to the child and explain why it is what they are doing or thinking is not right. Most kids want to please their parents so if you try to guide them by forcing or punishing a child you will encounter resistance and isolation from your child. This is because of the will of every person to think on their own, wrong or right. Allow mistakes and be there when the lesson is played out, you are the hero by coming to the rescue instead of the "all knowing, tell me what to do". The reason teenagers have most of there problems is because the parents handle the situation wrong and cause the effect. Kids have more pressure on them then ever and some balance on the line of anger (frustration). Not all kids are going to be surgeons or pro ball players, it's ok they can still grow up to be happy adults that can help in their way, not the parents vision of the way. Nobody likes to be told what to do, kids are no different. If you want to cut off the lines of communication just start demanding to much from your child. There are two ways to go, either punish into submission or try to guide them and let the normal course events take place, and be there for them if it all falls apart. You can be the hero instead of the cause (kids semi-sub-consciously embellish the truth to fit the situation).  If you try to control kids they will just end up hating you, and will still make the same mistakes anyway only when its later and harder to fix. Plus the child looses the benefit of the parents guidance after the fact.

Thanks to Mom

Moms can be the most blessed people on earth, they give actual life! A true miracle, cook the majority of the food, raise the kids, keep the house clean and much more. Moms are mostly responsible for the family social networking, their kids social networking, homework skills and how the family mood is in general. Moms are blessed with the gift of being able to give their life as a whole to their family long enough so the kids can grow up and move on. No one else in the world has a more blessed position in life. Only a women can be the most blessed on earth.

When Do You Win?

Most people are driven to one thing or another but what are they doing and why? It seems like everyone thinks their deal is the right thing to do, but really why are they doing it? we all are looking for the way to happiness and understanding, we look everyday. If you can understand all life's situations, everywhere, you can then begin to feel what the earth is about. Put yourself in someone else's life, how do they feel and why? and sympathize or celebrate with them no matter how they relate to you. Then happiness and understanding can seep in slowly, never think of your feelings, only of the ones around you. Happiness comes from giving to others, don't think so? go buy that new dress or tool box you will feel good for about one day, give a kid a good fun work environment and change the way he views the world, happiness for a lifetime. We buy self-help tapes, we go to seminars, read books, everything we can think of to make us happy. It costs a fortune in money and lost time, in reality all we need to do is take care of the people we love and you will have all the happiness you will ever need. You can only be happy when everyone you love is happy. The popular singer Tony Bennett is a winner, I do not like his music personally but I like the man even though I have never met him. He makes bundles of money but owns next to nothing not even a car. He gives to charities world wide, anonymously, and you can't wipe the smile off his guys face, he really understands how to live.

Don't Take to Much

Care about everyone else, then take a little time for yourself, indulge, but just don't stay to long or you will slip back into the un-happy, non-caring person you where before. You can't teach fun if you don't know how to have fun.

Don't Lie

To lie about a particular situation is stupid, first of all most people you are lying. Next you might be lying to gain for your self that later might prove to be a negative. The point is everything happens for a reason, good or bad, lying just mixes things up, good and bad thing are going to happen anyway, so why lie about anything you cant control what happens to you anyway. Now, a "white lie" is ok in my opinion, you don't want to hurt someone feelings if they ask how they look in this pair of shorts?

Always be Fair

Anytime you buy or sell something be fair. Everyone knows what it feels like when you have been ripped off, and the flip side when you get to good of a deal. You did get a product or service for cheap but you have ripped off the other party. If you knew the purchase was to good to be true then the selling party is inexperienced and is in the need of some guidance. If you think you got ahead in the transaction, think again, anything can happen to you at anytime. It will all come out in the end, besides wouldn't the world be a better place if you didn't have to worry about getting ripped off, (ex new single moms, elderly etc)

Compassion

It's what makes us human.

Love and Hate

You ever wonder how two people that are so in love at one time can hate each other a short time after that. You can't have one emotion without the other, if you never loved then true hate is impossible. Hate comes easy after love because the emotion is similar, once you have loved someone then hated, it is easy to flip back to love again, truly a fine line.

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Religion

A perfect example how people can mess a good thing up. It started as a good idea, you know, be kind to your neighbor but through time people have twisted it for their own gain, causing big problems, as you know. The world needs a general religion with big mix of mutual beliefs, take out the rest. This way Jews can celebrate Christmas and Christians can celebrate Hanukah, etc. everybody wins! call it "New World Religion". We all need to live in the now, problem solved!

Cancer

When someone gets cancer the first thing the doctors want to do is a biopsy, which means to take a small part of it, but when you take the small piece of it, it disrupts the seal on the collective cells, releasing rouge cells into the body, so the doctor removes the cancer and months later you find out it has spread though out the body. BIG SURPRISE! If you think it is cancer, go in and take a look with the intent to remove it without disturbing the cancer cells. It saved my mom's life.

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Why Dating Sites Sometimes Don't Work

In the beginning dating sites seemed like a great idea, and they would have been except for one big problem, everyone pictures themselves as the "good one" and have no problems!. In reality they are drunks with a bad temper. No one will ever enter in "I like to go on a drunken binge" in their profile which, in a relationship it's dealing with each others short comings that dictate the mood and direction of the relationship.

Cell Phones

Worst thing that ever happened to serenity. Best thing that ever happened to everything else.

Horror/Slash Movies

Why do people make these films? glorify the worst part of human nature?. How do you feel when you leave the theater, good?, I don't, I feel crappy inside. These films are lowering the "feel good about life" portion of society. Everyday life gets harder while theses films are made to make money, not caring about the effect of the film. People will argue "you don't have to watch if you don't want to" but they are wrong, we see them everyday in commercials on TV. In the name of money these people that make horror/slash films are costing more then they think, sleep good.

It's funny the people that make these films will say "freedom of speech!" our four fathers guaranteed it!,,, our four fathers never imaged people making movies like these, I wonder what they would say?

Time - Part1

Time is a funny and exciting thing, mystical and elusive know one really knows how it works. People say time is going by faster, is that because people get older and it just seems that way? In the beginning the life expectancy of a person was relatively short, where days longer? and did that balance it out?. Now, even my kids are telling me the days are going by really fast, when I was a kid they went incredibly slow. Or does it seem that way but cause of state of mind, happy or sad? Or are people now living longer as time is getting shorter, the ratio is changing while staying the same?

Why are some people famous and others are what they would call normal? and why does so many people want to be famous? Most people aren't famous or talented. At the same time there are all levels of success for every aspect of life. What makes one person so much different than everyone else?

Gravity

Some people see gravity as a mysterious force that can never be changed. Gravity is power created by the universe, it holds everything in a circle to its mass, the Earth is our mass so gravity holds us to it. Think of the universe as a big bubble that has a negative electromagnetic charge to it, we are inside that bubble and our earth has a positive charge, the matter the earth is made of will stay in a almost perfect circle because when it was formed it was like a liquid, hence the round shape.

Pets

I love pets, I think people that can love and take care of a pet is happier in general. Pets are always happy to see you, never pissed off or bitchy. Pets are widely loved by many people. But what kind of a role do they really play? some might suggest that our loved pets take an illness for themselves instead of their owner, like cancer. Can a pet love you so much they will die for you? maybe, a dog will certainly go against a much more worthy adversary if they thought you were in danger, and sometimes get killed doing it. Pets owners with a good audited about life have healthier, longer living pets in general. If you are having trouble feeding your pet, most of the time it is not hungry. Most pets eat on different schedule they you and me. They eat less frequently because they do less, pets are not on a predetermined schedule for eating time, so sometimes their just not hungry. Empty the food bowl for 24 hours, your pet will be glad to eat when you fill it. It is better for the pet to have something to look forward to and be excited to eat.

What are We Doing?

The big problem with this world is people do what is good for money not what is good for people. Take fast food, they feed us crap and wont telling us what is really in the food, just so they can make more money. Hell take food in general, we build bombs and guns instead of feeding people.
 

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