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Why are we here, what is the reason? A question that has
plagued mankind since the beginning. Some say we only have one
shot at life and others insist there is more than just one chance.
To live life with a constant goal to better yourself, spiritually
and intelligently to achieve happiness. It is hard to say what
happens to you after you die, there is no eye witness, no proof
of what the next step really is, if any. But, anyone can look
into the night sky on a clear night must wonder, is there anything
else going on out there? and if so does it effect me? The way
I see it the world is divided into two types of people, either
you believe in something more than just a one time ride, or
you don't.
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When You Die
When you die what happens? Everything
in the universe is an energy of sorts, your life force is an
energy what holds you to this world and in your body. As you
live your life your energy changes, you make choices that sculpt
your energy in everyday actions connected to your feelings,
good or bad. When you die your energy is released causing your
being (soul) to enter the universe and into your next life with
a flash of light (absence of time). You enter into your new
body after birth sometime between 6 months old and 1 year in
a slow process to consciousness. The reason for a slow transfer
is because of the absence of time, being carried upside down
for nine months and the birth process creates sever motion sickness,
the added time after birth helps relieve it. You carry through
some likes, dislikes, maturity level, personality traits and
talents. This is why there are kids and mentally handy capped
people that can't possibly learn what they know, but do. The
talent was so strong last time it bled through into the current
life. Anyone can experience the absence of time by being put
to sleep for an operation or other reason a medical doctor to
chemically put you under. As you pass out and regain consciousness
it seems like no time has passed no matter how long the unconsciousness
has lasted. As you feel out of the the fabric of time and then
caught back up again when you regain consciousness you feel
a little motion sickness from it. This is not the same as sleep,
in sleep you can still feel time passing when consciousness
you can not. Sometimes people have near death experiences and
see them selves hovering above their body, they are loosing
their life energy and the universe is trying to pull them into
their next life. They are returned to their body once their
life energy is restored.
The Power of Parents
Most parents do not realize
the power they have over their kids, the world tells our kids
they are no good and constantly try to bring them down from
the bully on the play yard to the teacher with a chip on their
shoulder. It is only until the child feels that their parents
think or say they are no good that they really believe it. It
is the love of the parents that holds a child up in this world
so they can try to achieve their goals. The attitude of the
parent must always stay positive and for the most part never
punish or scold a child, instead talk to the child and explain
why it is what they are doing or thinking is not right. Most
kids want to please their parents so if you try to guide them
by forcing or punishing a child you will encounter resistance
and isolation from your child. This is because of the will of
every person to think on their own, wrong or right. Allow mistakes
and be there when the lesson is played out, you are the hero
by coming to the rescue instead of the "all knowing, tell me
what to do". The reason teenagers have most of there problems
is because the parents handle the situation wrong and cause
the effect. Kids have more pressure on them then ever and some
balance on the line of anger (frustration). Not all kids are
going to be surgeons or pro ball players, it's ok they can still
grow up to be happy adults that can help in their way, not the
parents vision of the way. Nobody likes to be told what to do,
kids are no different. If you want to cut off the lines of communication
just start demanding to much from your child. There are two
ways to go, either punish into submission or try to guide them
and let the normal course events take place, and be there for
them if it all falls apart. You can be the hero instead of the
cause (kids semi-sub-consciously embellish the truth to fit
the situation). If you try to control kids they will just
end up hating you, and will still make the same mistakes anyway
only when its later and harder to fix. Plus the child looses
the benefit of the parents guidance after the fact.
Thanks to Mom
Moms can be the most blessed
people on earth, they give actual life! A true miracle, cook
the majority of the food, raise the kids, keep the house clean
and much more. Moms are mostly responsible for the family social
networking, their kids social networking, homework skills and
how the family mood is in general. Moms are blessed with the
gift of being able to give their life as a whole to their family
long enough so the kids can grow up and move on. No one else
in the world has a more blessed position in life. Only a women
can be the most blessed on earth.
When Do You Win?
Most people are driven to one
thing or another but what are they doing and why? It seems like
everyone thinks their deal is the right thing to do, but really
why are they doing it? we all are looking for the way to happiness
and understanding, we look everyday. If you can understand all
life's situations, everywhere, you can then begin to feel what
the earth is about. Put yourself in someone else's life, how
do they feel and why? and sympathize or celebrate with them
no matter how they relate to you. Then happiness and understanding
can seep in slowly, never think of your feelings, only of the
ones around you. Happiness comes from giving to others, don't
think so? go buy that new dress or tool box you will feel good
for about one day, give a kid a good fun work environment and
change the way he views the world, happiness for a lifetime.
We buy self-help tapes, we go to seminars, read books, everything
we can think of to make us happy. It costs a fortune in money
and lost time, in reality all we need to do is take care of
the people we love and you will have all the happiness you will
ever need. You can only be happy when everyone you love is happy.
The popular singer Tony Bennett is a winner, I do not like his
music personally but I like the man even though I have never
met him. He makes bundles of money but owns next to nothing
not even a car. He gives to charities world wide, anonymously,
and you can't wipe the smile off his guys face, he really understands
how to live.
Don't Take to Much
Care about everyone else, then
take a little time for yourself, indulge, but just don't stay
to long or you will slip back into the un-happy, non-caring
person you where before. You can't teach fun if you don't know
how to have fun.
Don't Lie
To lie about a particular situation
is stupid, first of all most people you are lying. Next you
might be lying to gain for your self that later might prove
to be a negative. The point is everything happens for a reason,
good or bad, lying just mixes things up, good and bad thing
are going to happen anyway, so why lie about anything you cant
control what happens to you anyway. Now, a "white lie" is ok
in my opinion, you don't want to hurt someone feelings if they
ask how they look in this pair of shorts?
Always be Fair
Anytime you buy or sell something
be fair. Everyone knows what it feels like when you have been
ripped off, and the flip side when you get to good of a deal.
You did get a product or service for cheap but you have ripped
off the other party. If you knew the purchase was to good to
be true then the selling party is inexperienced and is in the
need of some guidance. If you think you got ahead in the transaction,
think again, anything can happen to you at anytime. It will
all come out in the end, besides wouldn't the world be a better
place if you didn't have to worry about getting ripped off,
(ex new single moms, elderly etc)
Compassion
It's what makes us human.
Love and Hate
You ever wonder how two people
that are so in love at one time can hate each other a short
time after that. You can't have one emotion without the other,
if you never loved then true hate is impossible. Hate comes
easy after love because the emotion is similar, once you have
loved someone then hated, it is easy to flip back to love again,
truly a fine line.
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Religion
A perfect example how people
can mess a good thing up. It started as a good idea, you know,
be kind to your neighbor but through time people have twisted
it for their own gain, causing big problems, as you know. The
world needs a general religion with big mix of mutual beliefs,
take out the rest. This way Jews can celebrate Christmas and
Christians can celebrate Hanukah, etc. everybody wins! call
it "New World Religion". We all need to live in the now, problem
solved!
Cancer
When someone gets cancer the
first thing the doctors want to do is a biopsy, which means
to take a small part of it, but when you take the small piece
of it, it disrupts the seal on the collective cells, releasing
rouge cells into the body, so the doctor removes the cancer
and months later you find out it has spread though out the body.
BIG SURPRISE! If you think it is cancer, go in and take a look
with the intent to remove it without disturbing the cancer cells.
It saved my mom's life.
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Why Dating Sites Sometimes
Don't Work
In the beginning dating sites
seemed like a great idea, and they would have been except for
one big problem, everyone pictures themselves as the "good one"
and have no problems!. In reality they are drunks with a bad
temper. No one will ever enter in "I like to go on a drunken
binge" in their profile which, in a relationship it's dealing
with each others short comings that dictate the mood and direction
of the relationship.
Cell Phones
Worst thing that ever happened
to serenity. Best thing that ever happened to everything else.
Horror/Slash Movies
Why do people make these films?
glorify the worst part of human nature?. How do you feel when
you leave the theater, good?, I don't, I feel crappy inside.
These films are lowering the "feel good about life" portion
of society. Everyday life gets harder while theses films are
made to make money, not caring about the effect of the film.
People will argue "you don't have to watch if you don't want
to" but they are wrong, we see them everyday in commercials
on TV. In the name of money these people that make horror/slash
films are costing more then they think, sleep good.
It's funny the people that make
these films will say "freedom of speech!" our four fathers guaranteed
it!,,, our four fathers never imaged people making movies like
these, I wonder what they would say?
Time - Part1
Time is a funny and exciting
thing, mystical and elusive know one really knows how it works.
People say time is going by faster, is that because people get
older and it just seems that way? In the beginning the life
expectancy of a person was relatively short, where days longer?
and did that balance it out?. Now, even my kids are telling
me the days are going by really fast, when I was a kid they
went incredibly slow. Or does it seem that way but cause of
state of mind, happy or sad? Or are people now living longer
as time is getting shorter, the ratio is changing while staying
the same?
Why are some people famous and others are
what they would call normal? and why does so many people
want to be famous? Most people aren't famous or talented. At
the same time there are all levels of success for every
aspect of life. What makes one person so much different than
everyone else?
Gravity
Some people see gravity as a
mysterious force that can never be changed. Gravity is power
created by the universe, it holds everything in a circle to
its mass, the Earth is our mass so gravity holds us to it. Think
of the universe as a big bubble that has a negative electromagnetic
charge to it, we are inside that bubble and our earth has a
positive charge, the matter the earth is made of will stay in
a almost perfect circle because when it was formed it was like
a liquid, hence the round shape.
Pets
I love pets, I think people
that can love and take care of a pet is happier in general.
Pets are always happy to see you, never pissed off or bitchy.
Pets are widely loved by many people. But what kind of a role
do they really play? some might suggest that our loved pets
take an illness for themselves instead of their owner, like
cancer. Can a pet love you so much they will die for you? maybe,
a dog will certainly go against a much more worthy adversary
if they thought you were in danger, and sometimes get killed
doing it. Pets owners with a good audited about life have healthier,
longer living pets in general. If you are having
trouble feeding your pet, most of the time it is not hungry.
Most pets eat on different schedule they you and me. They eat
less frequently because they do less, pets are not on a predetermined
schedule for eating time, so sometimes their just not hungry.
Empty the food bowl for 24 hours, your pet will be glad to eat
when you fill it. It is better for the pet to have something
to look forward to and be excited to eat.
What are We Doing?
The big problem with this world is people
do what is good for money not what is good for people. Take
fast food, they feed us crap and wont telling us what is
really in the food, just so they can make more money. Hell
take food in general, we build bombs and guns instead of
feeding people.
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